Bitterness...so not a good trait

"They complain a lot, are never satisfied with anything. Because they are not prospering they wish deep inside that nobody else was prospering. And many times, whenever you are around them, you feel so much negativity that you just want to pack your stuff and run for your life." If this description rings a bell, me and you both know a bitter person.

"Bitter" individuals as I called them are those whom somebody did wrong a long time ago and they never got over it. Sure, we understand. Sometimes, people scar us for life, but that doesnt mean that you have to let that bad experience define you as person.

Sure your toes got stepped on, you lost your long carried naivete and idealistic vision of the world but don't let that mask and destroy the beauties of what life has to offer. If someone did you wrong, dont go around crushing other people's hopes and dreams just because someone threw yours down the drain.

If anything, transcend the wrong that was done to you. Let it go. Throw the bitter side of you down the drain because nobody truly wants to be around the carrier of bad news....




Stay Positive,
Gigi

"The World Should Evolve Around Me" Syndrome

So its 1:17 am and insomnia wont let me rest my eyes... Its more like a blank state of mind where nothing serious is occupying me. Maybe if I logged off facebook, sleep would gladly sweep me off my feet but that's another story.
This post is about people that swear the world revolves around them... You know you know at least one person that acts like they are the alpha and omega and if not you know that at one point of your life you were suffering from that egotistical syndrome. First thing first, I have to admit that couple years ago, I was one of those individuals expecting everything to go my way or my way. lol There were no other alternatives.
However, a part of growing up is realizing there are others' people feelings, thoughts, actions involved in whatever actions we take upon us to do. A friend was telling me that this guy FLIPPED OUT when she told him no she would not give him her phone number and started giving her everything but the finger.
My feelings on the matter is that NO is one of the best words in this world. Sometimes you don't even have to explain yourself. Just say no and one good look and the message is understood. And we, as human, forever growing and learning, should understand that the world is not ours 24/7, we share with other people therefore we have to take in consideration the others that are surrounding us.
That is why my tip for this truly early morning is to take a dose of humility today if you have that "the world should revolve around me" syndrome. Because truly it does not, never was, and probably never will. That's why we have the sun, right?

Stay grounded,
Gigi