Friday, June 11, 2010

Kindness>Weakness

It amazes me how people often mistake someone's kindness 
...For a weakness.
Being considerate to others has never been a crime until NOW.
You can't be considerate to others without them thinking that
They can consequently do whatever they want to you.
I have learned this week that although it takes strength 
To be caring to other in a selfish world,
It is idiotic to be caring towards other people
Because you think that it is expected of you.
In this process, you become a doormat to others.
Kindness is more than respect;
It is a genuine concern for the others well being.
But if there is no reciprocity,
There is no need to have one's kindness turned into a weakness.
There is no need to let others take advantage of you.
So if you are out there thinking 
That being considerate to everybody is the right thing to do,
Make sure you realize who really matters 
And if that person deserves your kindness.
There is no uglier thing that to be abused 
Because you are a nice caring person.

Stay guarded,
Gigi

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