Make it Worth Your While

It's funny how people expect you to be there for them,

Be nice to them, be a good friend to them...

But they never feel the need to reciprocate.

Sigh...

One-Way Relationship are the worst...

It's like people tend to forget that 

It's not their world we're living in

And that the sun really does not revolve around them.

And it's amazing how people feel extremely offended 

When you just stop paying attention to them 

Due to this given one-way relationship.

So readers, if you are the one being inconsiderate,

Please try to work on your people skills.

And you're the one being a "semi-doormat"

Please speak up!

Time is too precious 

For it to be wasted on those who do not deserve it!

Know That You Are Valuable,

Love,
Gigi

Tough like Kevlar

Some days are harder than others...

Some days, we feel like
We have the world on our shoulders,

BUT that is what life does.

Like kicks your butt sometimes,

It scares the crap out of you,

It beats you up.

BUT at some point,

You will realize that

You're more than a survivor.

You're a fighter.

And if you've made it this far,

You're tougher than anything life throws at you. 

So readers,

Give yourself a pat on the shoulder.

So far the score is life-1 you-1.

And we both know,
That you have more fight in you!

Stay Strong,

♥ Gigi

Changes......

Lately I have realized that as

I am moving into a new phase of my life,

Many things are changing:

"My perspective on life, my attitude towards life

And mainly...the people in my life.

And as some people are disappearing

To become shadows of the past.

Others are appearing or staying for the ride.

And I have come to embrace the fact

That change is good.

Change is sometimes needed in order to grow.

Nicholas Sparks said:

"People come, people go 

They’ll drift in and out of your life, 

Almost like characters in a favorite book.

When you finally close the cover, 

The characters have told their story and 

You start up again with another book, 

Complete with new characters and adventures. 

Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, 

Not the ones from the past."

I believe he was right.

Life would be a horrible book,

If the same characters kept resurfacing

OVER and OVER

So readers, maybe it is a good thing that

Life brings new characters in our life,

And instead of watching out and 

Being afraid for what's just ahead of us 

We should take time to enjoy

Where we are and what's right in front us.

Stay Blessed Readers

Appreciate the Moment

And Expect the Unexpected,

'Gigi

Zero Worries...

Worrying about life pretty much gets you nothing

BUT a pounding headache...

So from now on, I am letting go of yesterday. 

I am not going to worry about tomorrow. 

I am just going to focus on today...

PERIOD.

Take it one day at a time readers!

♥ 'Gigi

My Anthems for March :)

Lately so much garbage has been played on the radio
That I forget there is more to music then ridiculous hooks
But once in awhile, true music is being broadcasted...
Like this song by Adele "Rolling in the Deep"!
And... even this new song by Diddy "I am coming home":)
Hope you enjoy it!

Super Powers....

Sometimes I wish I had powers.

Not ridiculous powers like being able to fly like Superman.

But meaningful powers with a purpose bigger than myself.  

But powers that could allow me to put 

A permanent smile on my mother's face.

Or  powers that would allow me to be prepared

When life decided to smack me in the face.

Or better yet the power to put a smile on this old lady whom I met the other day. 

This lady had NO ONE.

Literally, she had nobody..

No Husband, no family, no children, no friends...

And I wanted to take her pain away...

Even it was for five minutes...

Maybe it's just me.

But I have noticed that

There's always a little truth behind every "jk",
A little knowledge behind every "idk",
A little emotion behind every "idc"
&& a little pain behind every "Im Okay".

So, sometimes I wish I had the power to take pain away.

Even if it is momentarily..

Because every once in awhile,

Everybody deserves to smile with all your being,

And not worry about a thing.

So maybe I am foolish

But that's the power I wish I had.

The power to take pain away.

The power to allow people to smile with their heart.

Smile with Your Heart :)

Gigi

Man-Eating Sharks!!!!

Friends.

They make you laugh.

They make you cry.

But at the end of the day,

Some friends are the real deal.

So if you have the real deal friends,

Just show them some appreciation.

It's a world of sharks out there...

There are more backstabbers 

Than back scratchers.

...I'm just saying

Be aware of these sharks!

Love, Gigi

Baby Steps

Sometimes I sit and wonder about what exactly is my purpose in life.

I am certain many of us have this same moment 

Where the future seems like a land of confusion, change,

And UNCERTAINTY.

And because of this uncertainty, 

Some of us go through a time in our life

Where "You're trying to act older and mature

But you really have no idea what you're doing"

And this morning I realized that 

It's okay to be scared.

It's okay be uncertain of what tomorrow holds.

It's okay to stumble while trying achieve something

It's even okay NOT to know what to do.

Because life is a journey with twists and turns, ups and downs.

And before you learn how to run, you have to baby steps.

So I am taking baby steps.

And readers, if you feel like you need to take baby steps,

IT'S OKAY.

You've got a whole journey to catch up on running :)

♥ Gigi

F.A.I.T.H

Someone once said:

"Have faith, trust and Belief.

Just because others can't do it, doesn't mean you can't.

Be the one to make the world stop and watch.

Prove the world WRONG.

Live YOUR DREAMS"

And in this moment, I feel that we OUGHT

To ourselves to TRY to make our dreams our reality.
Sometimes we forget who we are

And we lose sight of how much we can offer to the world

So readers, if you are out there

Trying to figure out if you can do it

The answer is YES.

All you have to do is believe in yourself.

And you can and WILL acheive any goal you set for yourself.

Stay positive,

 ♥ Gigi

Be...GOOD.

It annoys me when people can't accomplish a given task the right way.

If you're a friend, be a GOOD friend.

If you're a teacher, be a GOOD teacher.

If you have a job, be a GOOD employee.

Most importantly, if you mess up

Don't blame the whole world.

Just admit you did a mistake and 

Try to fix it.

Really it's THAT simple.

All we need to do in our personal lives is to

Try our best in everything you try to accomplish.

"Whatever you are, be a GOOD one"
That is All,
Gigi  :)

:)))

Hi Readers!
Sorry for the long hiatus!
I hope you guys missed me as much as I missed writing for you!
I hope 2011 is treating you well!
More posts coming SOON!