Sometimes we do things for others
And we fail. Miserably.
And the day we realize that it's better to live for ourselves
Than others, we start succeeding.
Because for once, it's not about pleasing others
It's about doing what we want for us.
Its about taking chances and living life to the fullest.
And lately, that's what I have been experiencing.
I've realized that it's better to live your life
So at least when you fail,
The only person you have to answer to is yourself.
But most importantly, when you try your best at what you want to do
There is no such thing as a failure.
Instead there's just a first trial followed by an inevitable success.
So readers, if you are out there
Trying to please everyone and forgetting about the most important person
YOU
You need to sit down and restart.
Life is about living fully.
So stop walking on eggshells and get to steppin!
You can't live your life for other people.
You've got to do what right for you.
Even if it hurts some people you love.
Remember
You cannot live for someone else
If you don't live first for yourself.
If you are nothing, the one you love will not love you.
To be what your love loves, you must be yourself first ♥
Adversity should be my middle name. Every year, there is some new challenge that I have to face and CONQUER. Every year, there is something that comes along and tries to break me. And sometimes, hard times bring sorrow. And it's perfectly ok to cry when you're hurting inside.
However, what I did learn and KNOW for a fact is that
It's not okay to keep on crying and not do anything to fix the problem.
So if you are out there thinking that it's all going down the drain;
The other day I was talking with a friend of mine.
And she said something to me that got me thinking:
"G, it's not those who don't like you you have to worry about.
It's your friends"
And, right after she said it.
I think some of my brain cells stopped working for a nanosecond.
Is it true that it's our friends that we should worry about?
Friends are the people you feel safe around Because you know they care about you.
They call just to see how you are doing, because a friend doesn't need an excuse.
They tell you the truth, the first time, and you do the same.
You know that if you have a problem, they are there to listen.
Friends are the people you love regardless, whether or not you realize it.
And yet, I have a close friend who has hurt numerous times.
Sometimes, it happens because she doesn't realize it and
Often it happens because my friend has a tendency to be selfish.
I think it's in her nature.
She is the one that thought that those you care about Have the power to hurt you the most. Yet, I still care for her because hey I am a softie. lol
No but seriously,
Should we worry about our friends?
I have noticed lately that in my personal life
I have a number of fair-weathered friends or opportunists.
Opportunists are those people who only call or try to reach you
When they need something from you.
Opportunists are like these stupid ants that come around randomly.
Opportunists annoy me.
For some reason, some people in my life think that
It's okay to call me once every red moon
And expect me to actually give them whatever they are asking for...
Well, today
I have an announcement for the opportunists that are in my life:
If you call and I dont pick up----> Now you know why.
My number is not an IN CASE OF EMERGENCY #
So next time, you feel like calling me or texting me
Just because you need me
And because you feel like you using me.
Better luck with 911.
Last time I checked they were the emergency line
And they HAVE to pick up your phone calls...
While quite frankly...I sureDONT.
I read this poem online and thought that It was TRUE. Therefore, I am sharing this with you women out there Hoping that you learn to fix that ONE flaw.
One Flaw In Women
Women have strengths that amaze men.....
Did anybody listen to Eminem's new song featuring Rihanna "Love the Way You Lie"?
If you didn't, please do and tell me if the lyrics aren't borderline psycho.
I am sorry but wasn't she a part of a domestic violence experience?
Shouldn't she be setting an example against the phenomenon?
Then why is she singing: Just gonna stand there and watch me burn Well that's all right because I like the way it hurts Just gonna stand there and hear me cry Well that's all right because I love the way you lie I love the way you lie
In a song that says:
"I know I'm a liar if she ever tries to fuckin' leave again
I'ma tie her to the bed and set this house on fire"
Maybe it's just me but I think that its of bad taste
And quite disturbing to hear her sing about this crazy scenario....
Sometimes, we don't realize how the small things matter in our lives.
A smile, a call, a touch, a memory;
These smalls things affect us more then we think.
We often take them for granted.
And today I realized that often the "things" that
We think are not so important in our lives...pretty much are.
Sometimes, all it takes is a smile-wink-look to make one happy.
Sometimes, it takes appreciating the small "things" in our lives
To fully cherish the big ones.
So, if you are out there thinking that what you do doesn't matter
I am here to tell you that you are wrong.
NO matter how small the gesture is,
NO matter how far the memories are engraved
It counts. It always counts.
Sometimes all it takes a small amount of appreciation
To make the world look a little bit brighter.
Stay positive,
Gigi
Last night I decided that I wanted to cook some authentic Haitian food. Since I live alone and no longer have the luxury to mooch off my mother's cooking I had to pull out the pots and pans and get to it.
I let the chicken to be seasoned overnight and after class one hour I cooked some rice and beans, some chicken in sauce and some baked chicken.
And I was amazed at how much I had changed over the years. When I was younger, you couldn't pay me to cook dinner. I hated it. It was more a chore then anything. For all I cared, everybody could have starved if they were waiting on me to cook for them. lol
Now as I am fresh into adulthood, I really feel like an adult with all my bills.
And I am glad, that I am no longer a child.
I think there is a time for everything.
And part of life is leaving behind one's childlike manners to acquire life skills
Sometimes, change is good.
If I hadn't changed, currently I would be dying of starvation lol.
Gaining maturity is a process that we all have to go through.
The early you gain it, the better off you are.
So readers, embrace your the changes that adulthood brings into your life.
So today I was listening to the radio, and it seemed like every station was giving some song featuring Lil Wayne or some other song with Gucci Mane. Now correct me if I am wrong, but aren't these two hum..gentlemen (?) in jail?
Gucci Mane has been chilling like a villain for like a year....and Lil Wayne well Lil Wayne is Lil Wayne.
And yet they have music videos coming out, songs being hits...like seriously?
Where can I find a job like that????
I want to be able to disappear from the face of the earth for a year and still make money every day!
I know for a fact a Biology/Biotech degree will not allow that!
My boss would probably ask me if I had been sniffing the acetone in the lab if I were to ask for such a deal lol.
But as I was listening to the radio, that's all I could think was "must be nice"
Can the government come up with positions like that? hum...yes I am serious
I am graduating in December and hum I would really like to see this happen lol
Thank you very much President Obama!
Am I the only one who thought about that at some point this year?
Although I respect all the army/navy/marines/air force men and women who are fighting for the country. I would never want one of my close relatives to enroll.
I think I would die of anxiety.
Trey Songz (hum Trey Songz) has a new video called Yo Side of the Bed that is oh so emotional. Instead of studying, I am sharing the new video with you guys! Enjoy!
So today as I was browsing the web I discovered this video.
If if you ask me its pretty amazing.
The girl in the video is Sheena .
For one whole year, she has worned the same dress!
That is 12 months, 365 days if you forgot!
Well she added accessories to the dress, which for some reason doesn't always look like the same dress since this girl is a genius at styling!!!!
The reason for this one year-one dress mission is the Uniform project which raises money for the Akanksha Foundation, which is an organization devoted to education reform in India.In the end, Shena managed to collect $95,089=264 kids in school!!!! Pretty Amazing if you ask me!
After watching this video all I could think was "What I am doing with my life?" lol
I love it . You should watch it .
Gigi!
“I believe things happen for a reason.
People change so you can learn to let go,
Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they are right,
You believe lies so you can eventually start to trust no one but yourself,
And sometimes things fall apart,
So better things can fall together.”
Tonight, more then ever, I believe that Marylin Monroe was right.
Sometimes, things fall apart so better things can fall together.
We have to believe that the reason for our misfortunes, is that
I ran accross this quote on google and though it should be the food for though today:
"The only way to get through life is to laugh your way through it. You either have to laugh or cry. I prefer to laugh. Crying gives me a headache."- Marjorie Pay Hincklely
P.S: Laughing while having God on your side would just expedite things :)
The other day I was watching one of my favorites shows Grey's Anatomy.
And the episode that was airing got me thinking about happiness.
We all want to be happy.
We all desire to find and keep happiness in our lives.
However sometimes, we tend to be too stubborn to Recognize when happiness in at your doorsteps.
Often we are afraid t let happiness into our lives and
Tend to sabotage any given opportunities that may present itself to us.
My food for thought today is that we all have a RIGHT to be happy,
Everybody deserves a shot to happiness and
We all should be able to what is necessary to gain that happiness.
We need to remember that we DESERVE to be happy
And feel joy from every bone in your body to the deepest part of your soul.
Therefore, readers, go on your pursuit of happiness!
For this past week, I have been reminded that Shit Happens And when I mean Shit I really do mean Shit. It's like once things start going downhill, They won't stop until they hit rock bottom. And when life smacks you hard, It is easy to just give up, and not try to get up.
However, what I also remembered during this past week is that "When life gets your lemons, make lemonade" Which means when Shit happens, as humans We have to be able to rise above the pain and suffering And make the best of the situation.
That is why readers, instead of complaining about the lemons life gives you And instead of trying to return the stupid lemons, Make a lemonade and remember that There is sunshine after the rain; And that shit WONT happen all the times.