Thursday, June 11, 2009

Wrong Judgements...

Sometimes, people amaze me by how wrong they can be when they are making an assumption on behalf of somebody. Many times, we see a person and based of what they are portraying we place a label on them... This label depending on what we think we see can range from "she/he seems like a good catch to...what a waste of sperm and egg"...Either way we may be wrong because like the saying says we should "never judge a book by its cover".

Putting judgements on someone causes you to react towards that given person whether you realize it or not. If you think that you have a good idea of what the person seems, you may let your guard down for a person that may in reality be a serious SOB. If its the reverse, you may end up putting uncessary rude fences for the wrong person.

So next time you see that person that you think is an ignorant individual or that girl that looks like she was blessed with Bb (beauty n brain), be wise about how you approach them because it might be the other way around...

Mother Theresa said "If you judge people, you have no time to love them" . We all know Mother Theresa has been right about a lot of things. And if she was right about that, you may have passed the love of your life and...left him/her standing on the side of road because you made the wrong judgement.


Stay wise,
Gigi

2 comments:

  1. I do this as a defense mechanism. When I first meet people, I observe them - their mannerisms, behavior, speech, etc... Within 15 mns, I've already placed a label on you - good or bad. It may be wrong to some, but this technique hasn't failed yet. Once someone proves me wrong, maybe I'll give another 15mns, lol.

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  2. LOOOOOOVE THIS ONE ...HAD ME THINKING ON HOW I SEE OTHER PEOPLE !!!! LC

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